1. There are no guarantees.
Don't expect to have a conversation about the future. You will not be participating in family events, exchanging gifts or meeting the friends (unless the know about the situation). Once MLK day comes around the cuffer will be telling you they need space.
2. You may think that you're in a relationship but you aren't....
You will not meet the parents, go on any couples night. No titles at all. You will be introduced as the friend.
3. You don't owe them anything don't buy anything and don't expect anything.
Just don't get gifts, don't wear anything fly, don't buy new fragrances...they get what they get due to the situation.
4. You're not exclusive (I don't even think I need to explain this)
5. You are probably not the girl or guy of their dreams
Believe me if you were they would not be letting you go.
There is no real rhyme or reason to this at all. It's just something that some people may do so they aren't lonely during the winter. It sucks but it happens.
I found out more but this is all the time I am willing to give to this.....now that you are up to speed do what you will with it.
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