K-liners: Conversation between friends on relationships

Yeah guys are just lazy. I re-watched “He’s Just Not that Into you” the other day. And I remembered why I liked that movie. Its shows that some people are the exception, but most people are the rule. We are the rule and guys are lazy. But things do happen when its meant to, or when you make them happen. I think it’s a mix of the two. But until you find him, I thought you should have fun with all the douche bags that come before.

I guess you are right, just because you have a man doesn’t mean you still aren’t the rule. Yea I do date jerks…..that might be the problem I haven’t been having fun dating them. Maybe if the douche is my type, which he seems to be I need to at least enjoy dating him instead of making myself feel awful trying to change him. Though I don’t know how I feel about things being meant to be and making them happen…..just don’t know.

I’ll tell you this. You can’t change a man. He’s going to be who he’s going to be no matter what. So if you go into something and he acts like that. More than likely he’s going to be acting like that for the rest of the relationship. Women are the ones that change like that. They might be all sweet and romantic when they first get together then a couple of months later, there they are wearing an old t-shirt and a wrap scarf to bed. And the dude is like where are the cute little night gowns? See me, he knew about the wrap scarf, like the first time we spent the night together.

No Regrets: Self-Defense Class

At this point we all know, that I have these random things that I do because I don’t want to have any regrets later on in life. Well last year I took self-defense classes, I only attended 2 classes out of the 3 recommended but it was a great experience. I went to Tactical Martial Arts Academy off of Midlothian Turnpike, Instructor was Master English. Master English was really bad ass and knew his stuff but he couldn’t really teach the class so our instructor was Sensei Gulliksen. He taught us the basic moves that could get you out of a jam (ask me and I will show you what I remember) and the things that don't work such as pepper spray which we are taught to use when being attacked. I learned a lot and was even interested in taking some martial art classes but that's another activity for another time because they are kind of pricey.

Still to come, more pole dancing classes and Karaoke anyone!

~No Regrets because everybody dies but not everybody lives.....

K-liners

Ashley Simpson filed for Divorce! I’m never getting married. I’m going to be like Halle Berry and have a baby by a hot model and then have these hot boy toys to play with.


Yes, all men are replaceable. I love him, but he's just a man.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!

Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive who is you-er than you!
~Dr. Seuss

Today I'm 27 and if you know anything about me you know I try my hardest to never celebrate my Birthday. No gifts, no parties, no discussion......

Yet this year I've been feeling like 27 will be good to me. I am going to be good to myself. We as people spend so much time allowing others to determine our happiness and I think it is time to stop, for me at least. 26 started off great for me but one issue consumed me and I let the the outcome of it control my happiness. I learned a lot from it and I learned a lot about myself. Life is too full of joy and wonderful things. I choose to laugh everyday and not sweat the small stuff. That may be hard but nothing worth really having is ever gotten without a little struggle. Should I have to struggle for my happiness, to really enjoy life, to really be myself. I don't know but that outcome is so much more important to me than anything else right now.

A friend once told me that I am an independent woman with a firecracker personality and I should never change for anyone. I really appreciated that and I choose to continue to describe myself that way. But to be happy I can not let my independence and attitude hinder that. We as women spend so much of our day thinking about what is wrong with our lives and ourselves that we don't really notice all the things we have going for ourselves. I may have this one thing that I've always wanted and I've never got it. It's that one thing that you feel once you get it, your life would be everything you want and need it to be. I don't know that, because if I am not content without it, why am I to think I will be content with it. Will I not want more......

So as I am so thankful that I get to turn a year older, I finally want to enjoy it as well. Every year I learn a little bit more about myself, the world and the people around me. I take the bad with the good, play up my strengths and remind myself that who I am is so much more important than what I have and what I do.

So in the end I realize that I can't continue to boycott my birthday, because I am not who I thought I would be and where I thought I would be at a certain age. So happy birthday to me!

All we ever talk about is partying, FASHION and men.....

Changes....I'm not always a fan of changes but lately I have been all about them. Changed my room, my hair and now I'm thinking about changing up my style a little.




Thinking about adding some stacked bangles into my wardrobe. I love bangles why not wear as many as possible.












Clutches, well I may own 2-4. Why not add more and boho clutches are all the rave.











Lastly let's talk about my clothes, not sure whether I should sex it up or rock it out. Something classy yet trashy without being too trashy. Makes no sense I know but it's something worth figuring out. I'll keep you posted or just check me out when you see me around, you might notice a difference.

No Regrets

Buy Your Own Jewelry....Just like you don't wait for a guy to wear a pretty dress you shouldn't wait for anyone to buy you that ring, bracelet, or necklace that you really want.

Life is messy and we are so busy with long hours, mean bosses, weight gains and prematurely gray hairs that we need to treat ourselves.

I work hard but I could work harder and I love myself so I have been wanting the Tiffany Aria ring for sometime now. I need a little sparkle, so why not. Well that's what I thought until I checked out the prices.
That puts me in a place where I know I deserve it but I can't afford it. Now it's time to save because there are so many things in life I want but can't get, I will not allow that to happen with the simple indulges. For some of us it's shoes (oh how I miss Aldo) a special trip, it may be your favorite magazine or a expensive meal either way the end reward is justified.