Now that cuffin season is suspended….let’s be warned….
What is cuffin season, well it's when you meet someone in the beginning of Fall and date/ sleep with them throughout the winter, then call it quits when it starts getting warm. Which means that cuffin season only last from Labor Day until the 3rd of November, it is then suspended until February 15th and finally ends the Friday before Memorial Day weekend. Why during this time period you may ask.....well lets be smart we have to avoid holidays and Valentines day. It's about having someone to keep you warm during the lonely season not about being in a relationship.
I knew about cuffing season but I never knew people really did this and it was bought up in a random conversation a few months back then I heard a PSA on the radio warning people about this time of year so I thought this was definitely worth blogging about.
Some people may think that this is something that guys made up but girls do participate either way. To participate you must follow the rules, yes there are rules. Now people who play the game may say that cuffin season doesn't exist because real playas don't take off, they play the game yearly. Yet somehow there is a time when guys/girls who just couldn't commit during the summer end up being one woman man or one man woman.....hmmm right.
So once I confirmed that this was true I had to find the rules that most participants follow during this season.
Rules to Cuffin Season
1. Don't invade each other space, you're here to get a long and fulfill each others needs...that's it.
2. Don't just find the most attractive girl or guy, make sure there is something else there because you have to be able to stand being around this person.
3. Don't just sleep together and go to your separate corner....pay them enough attention to keep them coming back.
4. Don't try to prove you are with them by caring too much about their life, don't ask about their job, hopes or dreams. You just care when they can be at your place and how long.
5. Don't pursue what's not there. This isn't a relationship there is always some else going on in each of yall lives. Work, school, friends, boyfriend, girlfriend.....most of the time it is just about the sex.
6. If he or she is on the phone a quarter of the time you're together and doesn't work or own a business, dead them. Just let them go, they are really not following the rules.
7. Girls like to have a sense of security, so give her that. Don't be flaky and let her know what's up-up front.
8. Guys want you to be ready to go when they call....drop what you are doing or they will move on to the their back up for the rest of the season.
9. Be careful. Twitter and facebook can fail you during cuffin season.
10. Don't be an enable. If your letting them in your place all day chillin, cleaning, cooking, playing video games etc. then get them out of your place. That may make them think more is going on like a relationship......remember this is not about a relationship.
Don't blame me I didn't make these up I found them thanks to my friend google.
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