Working on my laidbackness and my patience......
So me Ms. Ihavetotryeverythingatleastonce has joined match.com and it is trying my patience and testing my laidbackness. Two things that I decided to work on before I joined. I'm learning a lot, like how to not be too choosy. I am not giving up being choosy but some things I have to get over. I am also learning that guys think that pictures with their shirt off, with pets, just of the outdoors or no picture at all will get the attention of a girl. I mean really!!! I am a firm believer that you should introduce the crazy straight off but putting all your hang ups or issues in your profile....umm no. I don't want to read in your profile that your ex-girlfriend cheated, lie and used drugs so you don't want a girl that does any of that. No one wants someone that does that stuff. So....ugh....anyway. Dating online isn't that much different from dating period. A whole lot of baggage carried on into something new. There is still the waiting for a phone call that is now joined with waiting for an email. Let's not forget the rejection. You still have to compete but this time you are competing with the random 5/6 girls that are getting matched with the one person that you really are interested in every day. Which means that there is a chance that he might pick one of them over you....in comes the rejection. I have been avoiding this for so many years, its the reason why I became aggressive in dating but now I must face it and truly put myself out there. I will keep you informed.
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